The New Normal
Most students are battling the hardships of balancing school and
extracurriculars, but for junior Rebecca Brimmage, she is battling something much
more.
On March 27, exactly one week after her birthday, Rebecca went to the ER
because she had been experiencing severe leg pains to the point where she couldn’t
tolerate sitting up in class. At first, she was hesitant to go, she had perfect
attendance, and she wanted to keep it that way. When she finally went, the
doctors found six small tumors on her bones, and the next day she returned to the
ER for a biopsy. On April 3rd she was diagnosed with Ewing’s Sarcoma—a rare form
of bone and tissue cancer.
Ewing’s Sarcoma, a group of cancers known collectively as the Ewing’s
Sarcoma family of tumors, also known as ESFT or EFT, is a rare form of bone cancer
that makes up 1% of childhood cancer. ESFT are tumors that form in bone or soft
tissues, typically found on long bones such as leg or arm or bones in the chest,
pelvis, spine or skull. It happens when a change occurs in a certain cell to move a
gene called EWS on chromosome number 22 next to a section of DNA, on one of
several other chromosomes that causes the gene to turn on. No one knows why it
happens, it is not hereditary, and it occurs after the child is born. ESFT is commonly
missed in the early stages because the symptoms which include pain and swelling,
fever, and/or bones that easily break, can cause the same symptoms as many
common illnesses.
For Rebecca, staying positive isn’t hard, she is very thankful for her families
financial status and the short distance from her home to the hospital.
“Some patients have to drive across the state to get to the hospital,” said
Brimmage. “When you’re going to the hospital 2-3 times a week all of the driving can
really add up.”
Dealing with this isn’t easy, you find out who really are supportive in not only
the good times, but in the bad. Luckily, she has two best friends that help her keep a
healthy outlook on life. Her two best friends, juniors Jordan Westendorff and Tessa
Eckeberger have come to visit her during all of her 13 treatments, sometimes even
spending the night in her hospital room with her.
Going through high school in general is a rollercoaster, especially when you
add frequent trips to the doctors, chemotherapy and having to balance the pressure
and stress of junior year. Yet, Rebecca has the most positive outlook over the
majority of the junior/senior classes. She doesn’t have a negative outlook but
instead, she goes out and enjoys the world by looking for the positive in everything.
Talking to Rebecca really opened my eyes to how negative people are when
complaining about course loads and extracurriculars, when many people have so
much more to worry about. So many people complain about having to attend school
events, when some of the kids who want to go are even too sick to go to school.
“Lastly I am so grateful to have been able to continue school and
retain such a healthy outlook on life,” Brimmage said. “Fortunately, I tolerate my
chemotherapy treatment much better than most other patients, and I bounce back
really quickly so I haven’t missed a significant amount of school. My teachers are
super supportive and helpful so although I have to do most (if not all) assignments
in some classes it really isn’t hard to balance. It has become the new normal.”
13 chemotherapy treatments later, Rebecca still has a positive outlook
on life. Even with the constant scans and treatments, she knows she has her best
friends who will always be there for her.
“It has been one of the most eye-opening experiences that you cannot
gain unless you go through a catastrophic event like this,” said Brimmage. “I have
learned so much about myself and about what I hope to do with my future. Although
no kid should have to go through anything like this I am continually searching for
the good things to come of this. In a way I have lost a part of my childhood but in
other ways I have been taught so much about the importance and true meaning of
life; for that I am grateful.”